Jazmin Gonzalez
8-25-14
English Honors 2 Period
BOR Essay
First Born Children
“What we find changes who we become.” -Peter Morville this statement communicates that external things may change/shape the person you will become. Researches all over the world try to categorize people, they may be correct but they may also be incorrect. The Birth Order Research in my case, being the oldest, does show accuracy, but some inaccuracy as well.
The Birth Order Research states that the oldest child is an achiever. An example of that trait stated is I always get good grades. I am an achiever because ever since I was little I was disciplined to get good grades. I was taught that school must always be my main priority. I have always managed to get into higher level classes since elementary, for example I was tested for GATE and passed. In addition, I have passed all previous challenging classes with mostly A’s but in some cases a B. I think I am an achiever because I have never gotten anything lower than a B in any of my classes. Moreover, just like I think I am an achiever, every achiever has traits that might restrain them from certain goals.
The research gathered also states traits that are not positive, likewise the trait of being close-minded. To illustrate, I am a close-minded person because I don't like being bossed around or viewing things from another person’s perspective. I don't enjoy viewing things from other peoples perspective because I like things being done my way. The fact that I am a close-minded person also leads to a good trait of being punctual.
In addition, another trait that the research has accurately portrayed id the trait recently discussed, the trait of punctuality. I think I portray the trait of punctuality because I hate being late. Furthermore, I depict the trait of punctuality because I always have to be at least ten minutes early wherever I need to go. For example, if I am invited to a party and it starts at 4:00pm I have to go at least ten minutes earlier. Similarly, an example of me being a punctual person is I get really enraged when people get in the way of me being punctual. An example of that is back to a month ago when I had conditioning for Cross-Country and my dad was taking long and I got mad and I threw a fit until he hurried up, and fortunately I got to practice on time. All these traits have been proven true except the trait of authority. I don't think I like being in control, I get really stressed out, other than that all the traits were proven correct.
The Birth Order Research proved itself quite reliable and accurate stating I am an achiever, close-minded, punctual, science/medicine type of person. However, the disclaimer was I do not enjoy being in authority. I believe this research was very interesting because it did claim many of my personality traits, I found it reliable. This research has changed my perception on how I am not the only one that has these personality traits.